The Fatherhood Fraternity

Michael Connelly’s essay on fatherhood was a gem (“Sunshine on the Dark Side,” Sept. 7). Although I do not write hard-boiled crime novels for a living, I have, as does everyone, my dark places. Fortunately, the joy of having children keeps me from getting bogged down there for too long.

Welcome to the fraternity of fatherhood, Michael. Now you know.

Tom Orr

Huntington Beach

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There is no way one can be prepared for the emotional attachment that develops between a parent and child. Not until one actually lives through the birth, sleepless nights, diaper changing, first word, first step and myriad other firsts, is it possible to know the joy and love one can feel for a son or daughter

And when I’m older, I know I’ll be even more thankful that we made the decision to have children.

Neil Buchalter

Los Angeles